Sunday, March 30, 2014

_EldersSmart&Gardner_

So the title is our signature on our cell phone, just in case you were confused.

As you all know, transfers were this week. Elder Leishman's in a place called summerfield, and my new companion is named Elder Smart. HE IS WONDERFUL.

We have a lot in common, we both love music (both playing and listening), in fact he's taken music theory, so we can talk about music a lot. As well we both had a childhood based on classic cartoons and homestar runner (for those who don't know what that is, look it up). We quote Brian Regan to each other a lot. He's funny, and more importantly he thinks Im' funny ;)

Basically he's super happy and easy to get along with, and he's excited to do the work. We've already had our fair share of adventures just in this last week. Our recent convert friend Chris is the one who took us to Charlotte and back for the transfer meeting, and that was a trip. At that moment Chris hadn't slept in 72 hours, had 6 redline energy shots (you're only supposed to drink half the bottle withing a 24 hour period), and 4 energy pills. We thought we were going to die.

We've met quite a few strange people. The strangest is two girls who we met outside HPU who were very drunk and very high. They were very concerned that both of us have girlfriends and are still virgins. Well... We tried to bring the conversation back but they tried to invite us to a party to get us drunk and rape us... We're still both laughing and in shock about it all. 

We also helped the Terry's (members) cut down a tree. I'll include some before and after pictures.

Which reminds me, I'm going to start taking more pictures! Elder Smart and I are both pretty bad at taking pictures, so we're going to do better. The pictures I do have, Which may be in this email or in a separate one:

The ice storm a couple weeks ago.


The before and afters of the Terry's tree.



My sweet tan-line.


Elder Smart holding the part of a chainsaw the chain goes around. While cutting off part of the tree, the huge limb came back and bent the chainsaw part he's holding. Luckily he didn't drop it or fall off himself. If you're wondering why he's in missionary clothes, we were back and forth between appointments and cutting down the tree, and we were just leaving to an appointment. So don't worry, we didn't cut a tree in our good clothes!


I love you all! See you next week!


-Elder Gardner

Thursday, March 20, 2014

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Attention people of Earth (and some beyond)!

So this Teusday is transfer day. Saturday was the day we would get calls to see if we're moving. We got a call.
I'm staying here in HIgh Point. However, Elder Leishman is leaving. Not only that, he's going to be a district leader wherever he goes, so good for him! It's a little bittersweet that he's going. Our comapnionship was rocky at first, but since then we've sorted things out and now he's leaving. Maybe it's because I don't like change and there's a possibility the new guy will be worse than he was (yikes). I'm not training this transfer like what usually happens I guess. I'll keep you posted more on transfers when they actually happen tomorrow.

Update on Maurice:
One night we decided to check up on a family we dropped like 3 weeks after I first got here, to see if they were ready yet. We talked with Sean, the questijonably sane 17 year old son. As we were about to leave however, he said "have you heard about what happened to Maurice?". Naturally we were intrigued. According to the story he told and some information check we had our recent convert friend Chris look up, Maurice is in jail. Yup, he came to church a few weeks ago and later that week he ROBBED A BANK and is in jail. His bond is $280,000 dollars. We aren't sure of the reason, but all we have is because his girlfriend broke up with him. Elder Leishman sensed he had another side to him when he and Elder Kleinman taught him before I got here, and his assumptions were correct. So that was our most-progressing investigator. Everyone else is slowly fall;ing away, we can't get hold of anyone. I have a feeling my new companion will want to do some "spring cleaning" and we'll go back to tracting. Hopefully all goes well.

We had stake conference this last weekend. It was really good! I had never gone to one of those up until then, and I enjoyed it. Apparently they have brodcasts form Salt Lake and you hear from apostles! If I had known that before I would have gone a lot more. L. Tom Perry spoke at this one and he talked about the importance of The Doctrine and Covenants. It was interesting when he said: "The Bible and The Book of Mormon are great books indeed. They are records, commandments, and testimonies of those living anciently. The Doctrine and Covenants are the records, commandments, and testimonies of our day. It is our book. It belongs to the Latter Day Saints." Powerful! Makes me want to read D&C more carefully. If you haven't before (like me), go to your next stake conference.

Not much else happened this week, so I'll see you all next time!

-Elder Matthew Gardner

Monday, March 10, 2014

Let Us Stand Together

Hello family and friends! This week I actually kept a list of things I wanted to talk about this week so this e-mail will actually have some substance!

First off, remember last week when I talked about rain? Well later that day the rain turned to snow and later that week the snow turned to freezing rain. Last year Utah got some freezing rain but not like here. The rain froze to the ground when it hit and we literally got a 1/4 of an inch of ice over everything. As a result of this, Guilford County (county I'm in right now) went into a state of emergency. This was a legitimate natural disaster! The ice weighed down several trees and powerlines, and the roads were a mess (even for us practiced Utah drivers). All in all 80% of High Point lost power, from homes to businesses to street lights. Several cities around had similar problems, but I have to stay in High Point therefore only really care about High Point right now. Off subject, what do you do if the street light isn't working? Treat it like a 4-way stop, right? Could someone please tell that to EVERYONE IN NC? Anyway, so this was a big deal, and there are people still without power and hot water. Just before anyone freaks out though, us missionaries are all safe. We never lost power at all, and those in other areas who did only lost it for a short amount of time. We're all safe, warm, and fed. Although it doesn't really matter because the snow/ice is already all gone with temperatures back into the 70's the second the storm left. Yay for NC weather. We didn't teach a ton of people while this all went down, because a lot of people left because they don't have power. So a lot of our appointments fell through, but we did make a lot of calls. Especially while we were home-ridden while it was all coming down. Still haven't heard anything from Maurice. Everyone else seems to be fine, but we haven't had a lot of contact with people. This week will be better though!

Even though we didn't do a lot of teaching, we had lots of opportunities for service. Mainly cutting up trees that fell down. We helped this one guy who is neighbors to a member, his name is Tom. His tree split in to three pieces, one blocking the way into the backyard on the side of the house, one hit his house and the back porch (but luckily no damage), and the other is still standing. We cut it up and cleaned it all out in about 2 hours, and it was a big tree. Many hands make light work, and even though there were only the 4 of us I'm sure the Lord had a few hands helping us for providing service.

The 40-day fast ended on the 6th. Next day cracked open a root beer. It was delicious. I didn't think it would be that hard, but it was. Although I'm drinking soda again it was good practice making sacrifices and resisting those temptations. I probably would've had a more spiritual experience if I hadn't only focused on giving up temporal things, but I still learned something from it. 

I have a joke! The 2nd counselor of the bishopric told this one to us. So back in the times of the Spanish Inquisitions, part of the job was to get all the Jews out of the land. Because both parties are God loving people they didn't use force but first decided to debate the issue. However, the Catholic Priest only spoke Spanish and the Jewish Rabbi only spoke Hebrew. But they did the debate anyway, with hand signals and objects to make they're point. So the debate starts and the priest starts by holding up 3 fingers. The rabbi holds up 1. the priest waves his arm above his head, the rabbi points at the ground he's standing on. The priest brings out some bread and wine, the rabbi pulls out an apple. The priest gives up and says, "that's it, the debate is over. They won, they're staying here". The congregation goes wild. How? What did he say? So he tells them, "well, I first started explaining the trinity and he responded by saying there is still only one god we all worship. I then tried explaining that God is all around us, and he said that God resides within each of us. I then pulled out the bread and the wine to talk about Christ's sacrifice for us, then he pulled out the apple saying we're all accountable for the sin adam and eve made in the garden. The Rabbi was also talking to his congregation. Well what happened? They said. He told them, "well he said you've got 3 days to get outta here. I said ain't one of us is leaving! He then said ALL of you gotta clear out of here, and I said no, we're staying right here! Well then what happened? They asked. I'm not sure, he pulled out his lunch and I pulled out mine.
Haha! Funny!

So because it's been 3 months of my mission offficially, my testimony for this month can really be summed up in one scripture. 2Nephi 7:8 "And the Lord is near, and he justifieth me. Who will contend with me? Let us stand together. Who is mine advesary? Let him come near me, and I will smite him with the strength of my mouth."
This is the scripture I chose because of what happened with this storm, and what I've been learning about Christ like attributes. All those members who were fortunate enough to retain power reached out and helped all those who weren't. There were families sleeping over, eating, and showering at these homes and all was done with the brotherly kindness that should be had in a ward family. And even though we didn't lose power, a lot of people were checking up on us and were making sure we were okay. All in all it struck a note in my mind that when the devil sends bad things our way, or even if God sends things our way to test our faith, we all need to stand together. It doesn't even need to be exclusive to church members. We can stand together as neighbors and communities, too. There truly is strength in numbers, as I said about many hands helping Tom. We do not have to go through trials alone, there is always help available. Even if we feel we are alone, God will not forsake us! I know that that is true!

I love you all,

-Elder Matthew Gardner

Saturday, March 8, 2014

March 3, 2014

So first I have to apologize to anyone who has sent me letters. Specifically I'm sorry for not replying as swiftly as I probably could. The thing is our mission president has made it clear we should only write our family on Mondays, and my companion is very adamant about making sure we follow that rule. However, he never gives us time to do that because he gets cabin fever if we sit inside longer than 45 minutes. So again I'm sorry, but I will try to do as much as I can. Please do keep sending me letters, missionaries love getting mail, and I'll try to reply as soon as possible. Thanks!
Anyways...

It is constantly raining here in NC it seems like. A couple weeks ago it snowed a bunch, this last week was beautiful 60's and 70's, and now it's raining as we speak, threatening to freeze and possibly snow again. Weather is ridiculous. It seems I talk about it a lot, but ya know it's kind of the only thing I pay attention to. This week I just kinda decided to allude everything to rain today. Enjoy.

In just a couple weeks I'll be done with training, and I can finally be a "normal" missionary. If the words of other missionaries ring true, it should all fly by now. In this case the rain has lifted.

However, it's pouring on our success. Remember Maurice? He was supposed to get baptized this Saturday but now he can't, he didn't come to church. He pulled one of his famous "drop off the face of the planet" tricks, and we haven't had any contact with him for a week, despite our calling him every day. *sigh*

We haven't had any contact with Bill for a month, because the members we're working with on him don't want us to push too hard. They want to help him on "God's time" and not "ours", which means probably 6 months instead of the usual couple of weeks.

Tedarreus is still doing great, he's still progressing, but he's progressing slowly. By the end of March he should be done with his smoking job and become a manager at his other one, then he can have enough money to move out and start living both the law of chastity and the word of wisdom, then he can get baptized! but that's at the end of march. We have transfers before then...

Speaking of transfers, the official day is the 18th, and we find out if we're going anywhere on the Saturday before. Just in case I do move, please don't send me anything that week. I don't want any mail mishaps and I'm sure neither do you. Comparing that to rain... um... I don't know think of something.

It's only sprinkling on the rest of our investigators, which show a lot of promise but just aren't quite there yet. We'll keep going, please pray for us all.

I love all of you! Except you Jim... you know what you did...

-Elder Matthew Gardner

Saturday, March 1, 2014

February 24, 2014

In about a week it'll be the 3 month mark! That means I'm done with training. And now I can be a normal missionary. Who knows what'll happen after this, transfer weeks bring many surprises. There are many missionaries who sometimes get split trained, meaning They got a different companion during their first 3 months, so who knows what'll happen.

I can't believe it's already P-day again, I don't even know what to say. Here goes nothing.

So last week was dealing with Winterstorm Pax, this week was perfect sunny, 75, slight breeze kinda weather. We were passing High Point University on our bikes one day and all the college students were having beach parties. Bathing suits, volleyball, tailgates, BBQ's, all in the middle of February. Craziness.

We are getting closer and closer to baptizing Maurice! If you don't remember him or I've failed to mention him before he's a 19 year old kid who was found by missionaries like 3 transfers ago (a transfer is 6-weeks mind you). When I came we tried to find him but he had dropped off of the face of the planet, up until about 2 weeks ago. We've been re-teaching him some stuff but to know avail because he remembers it all! Now we just have to wait for him to come to church one more time and he will hopefully be baptized on the 8th. However, our Zone Leaders are having a baptism that day. No problem right? Well they called us and said to move it because they already have a spot and there will be basketball that morning and a ward activity that night. One: basketball doesn't take the whole building. Two: they could have easliy just tried to work it out. We could have done it at the same time, just use the same font for different people, that happens all the time. But no they just called and said we had to move it. Why can't they move theirs? I dunno. It's frustrating because it's my first baptism but we have to probably wait until the next week. We're trying to get it to happen on Friday the 7th, but either way just keep us all in your prayers! Maurice needs this!

We also met this guy named Joe. He's not close. Here's why: We found him walking into the Library yesterday so we stopped him as we were walking past. He says he had met with missionaries before, but I'm not sure. Joe is very old. And he's crazy. When we found him he was chewing on leaves. He literally picked them up off the sidewalk and started chewing on them one at a time. Crazy. So we went into the library and started talking to him. He seemed to understand just fine until we asked him to pray about Joseph Smith. He sat there for a couple seconds, looked at us like there were aliens jumping out of our noses, and just stood up and walked away. Just walked away. We never saw Joe again. So there's that fun story!

Love you all,

Elder Matthew Gardner